Personal Narrative:
Moving Away From My Best Friend
Promise to call and text me everyday”, were one of the many promises I was asked to keep on my last day in Miami. “I will, I promise. Don’t forget about me or our stupid jokes. I love you so much.” I sat to my best friend, Gina, while hugging her goodbye.
See I moved to Stephens City on January 13th, of this year. My parents told my sister and me many, many months before, that we would move. The thing is that, it never really hit me until the moving company started packing all our stuff.
I remember the first day they started packing our stuff. I couldn’t stand watching my whole childhood get packed into cardboard boxes, and get shipped off to a different state. It was a very emotional day. I told my parents I would be at Gina’s house and left. I walk to her house, seeing as how it was just down the road. I walked in using my key and walked right into my best friend’s arm and cried. I for what felt like hours, but really could’ve only been half an hour. Gine just held me, telling me everything was going to be okay, trying to soothe me and keeping her tears at bay. When I let her go, I laughed at how hideous we must’ve looked. I smiled at her told her how much my life was going to suck with her being thousands of miles away. “.. I can’t even fathom the idea of making new friends, when I have evryone I love and need here. Like, I can’t…” I ranted to Gina.
The next day was my last day in Miami. January 13th, 2012. I was saying my final goodbye to Gina when it really hit me. “Oh my god. I’m actually moving to Virginia.” I quietly sobbing on my best friend’s shoulder. “Shh, its going to be okay. You’ll make new friends and forget about me. You are really great, and if those people don’t like you then they are stupid.” Gina tells me, while pulling away from the hug so she can look me in the eyes.
The next few days were tortue. I had to clean my new house, unpack all my clothes and try not to cry, not showing how depressed I was. My third day in Stephens City was also my first day of school. I went to school, and felt so out of place. Everyone had made their own designated friends and little groups. I remember walking into my first class that day, and had everyone staring at me. ‘How awkward’, I thought to myself, when I took my seat. I felt so out of place, I didn’t even want to think about how bad the rest of the day was going to be.
I was shocked to see that I got lost, my old school was four times the size of Sherando, and I never got lost. When I went to me next class, I was disappointed when I saw that I had to sit in the front of the classroom. When I got seated, I took my phone out and texted Gina that I needed her and I couldn’t take it anymore. She quickly replied and said I needed to try and make friends. She knew me to well; I was always the quiet one when I first met someone, still am, just not as bad. I quickly replied telling her I’d call her when I got out of school.
When school finally let out, I called Gina and told her about my day, and how much I hated it. “It’s so different! I’m a city girl, and some of these people have accents, and they are not the beautiful English-Australian ones. Like, you don’t understand how different it is here.” I rant to her through the phone. I heard Gina sniffle through the phone, “What happened? Why are you crying?” I ask her, trying to keep calm. “Nothing, its just that I miss you, and it just hit me that you’re really gone.” Gina cried quietly on the phone. I couldn’t help but tear up a little. “I know, but think of it this way, when you graduate next year, you can move up here, and live with me until I graduate!” I say trying to lighten the mood. “I know. Look I’ve got to go, just promise me one thing.” Gina says getting ready to hang up so I don’t hear her cry. “Don’t go looking for another best friend. I can’t handle looking you completely.” I sigh as I felt the tears stream down my face. “I promise, you haven’t even lost me, and I don’t plan on replacing you. Sorry, you’re stuck with me.” I say to her, chuckling at the end. “Good. I really got to go. Bye, Love.” Gina says, hanging up the phone.
Till this day, I keep that promise. I talk to her every day; she even came up here for her spring bear. I feel like this move made us closer though. I still find myself crying a little when we’re talking to each other, because we’ve missed out on so much of each other’s live. Just the other day she told me her little brother, who is like my own brother, lost his front tooth. I cried a little, knowing that I’m missing out on him growing up. She did tell me where she was planning on applying to college. “I’m applying to UVA and VCU, because I’m thinking maybe, if I get in with a scholarship, that I’d be close to you,” was exactly what she told me. I remember we had planned on going to the same college. even if she is two years ahead of me. We still plan our life and everything. The hardest part for me was leaving her with old friends, while I went and made new ones. It’s still weird not seeing her face everyday.